We moved to our new house on the 8th and there have been many days since then that I haven't even turned my computer on, let alone blogged or sent email. I think of it often and often want to . . . just haven't been able to. But we are beginning to settle in. I overheard my husband on a skype call with a friend back in Wichita. He was trying to explain why life had been so full lately; that we were settling in. I felt the disconnect and of course had a communicators need to capture what settling in is looking like for us in our new home!
We've had to figure out how we will store our medicines (mostly things we can't buy here so have brought with us) in a way that is safe (out of the reach of children) and a location that will not freeze come winter. I finally opted for labeled boxes on top of our closet. It makes quite the tower.
Our shower room is directly catty-corner across the yard and has an outdoor entrance. We've had to figure out where the outside shoes get taken off; what is clean space; what is dry space; what shoes we wear in the concrete shower room; etc. 2 weeks in an we have a great little routine down. But you can imagine it was stressful trying to figure it out and continue re-enforcing it with my 3 year old.
This is our outside bathroom/laundry room. The question has been how do we go about brushing our teeth and keeping our toothbrushes and contacts clean from the mice, spiders, frogs, flys and dust that have all been seen since moving in.
This is the solution we came up with. Now we just have to find a new filing cabinet!
Austin says he walks in our squatty potty and feels like he's in the local version of Ace Hardware. Our landlord recently remodeled the home and all the extra everything (tile, wood, window frames, glass, concrete) is packed into our squatty. I'm somewhat hesitant, especially at night, as we've had multiple sightings of a very large rat right outside our squatty. The settling element, however, is how to help my 3 year old go to the bathroom. She has caught on to squatty really well, within the first week. But we do have a little squatty port-a-potty accessible for when she doesn't want to use the other option. For the first week she struggled with fear over falling in.
This little guy lost his closet. It doesn't fit in the room that now holds all 3 of my children only a door away. (You can see Austin in the background sitting at his desk on the far wall of our bedroom.) So the 3 section hamper we brought from Wal-Mart has now become his dresser. The green tub holds his cloth diapers and the tub (also brought with us) under his bed is for all his clean sheets/blankets)
Again with the hygiene products. We're not high maintenance people, it has just required some creativity to know where to keep our stuff and how to keep it. Thanks Mom for the shoe organizers. One holds our deodorant, etc. on the inside of our closet door and the other holds our underwear and socks. Thinking outside the box . . . all part of settling in.
What to do with our puchock is one of the first things we had to figure out. All the vegetable peels, left over bread, grape vine clippings have to be disposed of in a proper way. In our old neighborhood, one of Ethan's friends would push a wheelbarrow through the neighborhood and collect everyones puchock for his cow. We have a neighbor 2 doors down with 2 cows and chickens. Every afternoon, Ethan and Elli deliver our red bucket and any extra yard clippings!
So we are settling in. We really do like our new place. Minus the rat, of course!
Thursday, 23 June 2011
Saturday, 4 June 2011
Fighting to watch out!
"Make sure no one gets left out of God's generosity.
Keep a sharp eye out for weeds of bitter discontent.
A thistle or two gone to seed can ruin a whole garden in no time.
Watch out for . . . trading away God's lifelong gift
in order to satisfy a short-term appetite.
Hebrews 12:15, 16 MSG
This was today's verse on my flip calendar this morning. And it has been a battle all day long to watch out for weeds of bitter discontent in my heart; to see His generosity in and around me and make sure that those around me don't miss out on it; to guard against trading His lifelong gift to satisfy a short term appetite.
The day draws to it's end and I haven't arrived. But His Word to my heart was so timely today and He faithfully kept reminding me of it!
Friday, 3 June 2011
Trying to stay sane!
Since we have the keys to the new house, Austin and friends have been hard at work trying to get it ready for us to move in, God willing Wednesday and/or Thursday of next week! That means I should be kicking it up a notch on the packing; but I'll be honest I'm struggling to find the motivation, energy or time.
Rather my days have been filled with keeping very excited kids (which let me say, I'm so very glad they are excited about it) content, occupied and patient!
| The very excited kids! |
As you may notice in the above photo . . . my eight month old is in the throws of teething; back molars bulging and swollen. We have yet to cut any teeth, I have no idea why those ones are moving right now. So he's up in the night screaming, not napping well during the day, and wanting to be held. Ideal for packing, really!
So here are some of the things I've resorted to:
1. My kids and several neighbor children riding laps, on anything that has wheels, around the four sides of our courtyard. This is far from a new activity, but always seems to be a favorite. The sidewalk is super narrow (especially when my laundry is on a drying rack on the sidewalk) but it doesn't seem to hamper the dreams of racing each other, only to never be able to pass the person in front. This week, Elias has joined in on the fun, sitting in his stroller in the yard watching the world race around him. Thanks Thompsons for that scooter! So glad we brought it, it's got some major miles on it!
2. Chilled apricots and green melon in one of those sieve sucker things. It's super yummy, so he'll actually eat it. And I think the cold helps.
| This is a new friend who's been coming to help several mornings a week. I guess with 3 kiddos and home school around the corner, I'll take all the help I can get! |
| He likes it! |
3. And when he just wants to be held right in time for dinner prep to begin, I put him in the backpack carrier. This was the first time he's ridden on the back. He really like it and I felt much better about doing dishes and working on dinner with him on my back. It was hilarious, we were dancing to the music one minute and less than 30 seconds later he was limp and fast asleep.
| My attempt at a self-portrait, taken in our only mirror (notice toothpaste to the left) while standing on a plastic stool. But you get the idea. On a side: I love my new red corta. It's my favorite dress this season. |
Big brother helped me snap the little head cover on (I had to explain snapping; "It's just like popping 2 Lego's together"- he had it right away) so his little head didn't bobble. But he slept for an hour, the longest nap he had that day!
| I love the baby squish face! Don't you just want to kiss those cheeks! |
4. And this is my current addiction.
You've never tasted an apricot until you've tasted one from our valley! They are amazing. So excited to see mounds of them appearing in the bazaar! We can easily conquer a kilo in one sitting; which if you're not careful can have you running later! Can't wait to make some of Grandma's great jam! We only have one jar of apricot left. But I think I'll wait to conquer that until we unpack into a new kitchen!
| The perfect measure of ripeness; they split in half and almost dissolve in your mouth! |
I'm sure I'll wish I had more organized and packed away. But each day has worries of it's own and the days have been full.
Wednesday, 1 June 2011
Just some processing!
Can I process with you for a moment? I don't have any pictures, and probably won't do any fancy fonts or indenting, just have thoughts jumbled in my head that I think would do me good, and do more of His good in me, if I got them out. For it's raw-ness, I apologize. But I've wanted to be better about sharing more of the moment to moment, and not just the after-the-fact slideshow.
Yesterday, Austin and I's morning routine was halted by the BBC headlines. A home we had made and enjoyed (in many ways) was ravaged by 2 bombs on Monday. We both sat stunned as we watched live footage down a street we had walked countless times; going to visit Lisle's; Austin and Ethan buying nan paying with a "credit stick;" walking to a tailor friend who made all our floor pillows and several shirts. Never did I think "that's our street. Is that our house?" would come out of my mouth while watching BBC. Austin quickly emailed our old landlord/dear friend, to find out how they were. All were fine and they planned to return to their home in a days time. The next thoughts through my head were, "I'm glad we moved. It could have been us; my kids." And the thought that trailed that one was one of those sweet Father whispers "they are my kids and I watch over them."
Remember that paradigm blowing 2002 Summit retreat; Ethan B- something? Wasn't that his name? That safety is an illusion and our days are really the Lords. The rest of the day it was like I had a podcast of his talk running through my head; with little scratches and blips missing.
I remember Ethan's first day of Kindergarten (and numerous days afterwards). 9-4p.m. is so long for my little 5 year old to be under the instruction of someone else. We've taught him to respect and obey the teaching of authority and it wasn't long before he came home with his mind full of ghost and witch stories. Halloween, hadn't thought through that one. We hadn't been around Halloween and here he was hearing all these stories from people we had taught him to respect. "We don't believe in that, buddy. Jesus is victorious over all that darkness." Numerous nights of re-guiding and re-teaching. They are His and He will guide them!
"Mary" asked again yesterday if Elli could come with her for the afternoon to her village to play and pick cherries. Elli, my 3 year old (who thinks she's 12)? Austin and I talked it over, weighting the risks and benefits. One of our goals as a family is to grow in our love for our national friends. An afternoon together, doing such fun things on a farm would foster that. But this place isn't the most kid-friendly (in that nothing is "baby proofed"). We felt okay if Ethan went along too. His local language is better; he's a lot more responsible and less distracted by his whims or emotions. I didn't tell him he was in charge (as I don't want to foster too much of that) but knew he would watch out for Elli. Mary said it would be an hour and a half trip. I new better than that. I prayed all afternoon. Prayed over open water ditches; prayed for local transportation; prayed for squatty pottys. You name it I (and my girl friends) covered it in prayer. But I prayed too for great memories to happen for my kids, in language and with local friends. My heart was relieved when they came home. And He again whispered, as we listened to story after story at the dinner table, "they are mine, I will watch over them."
Austin and I have been given a great gift and responsibility in parenting and guiding our 3 precious children. As I do it, may my heart remember that regardless of the location or the circumstance, I am merely a steward of this precious gift and that He is ultimately trustworthy!
Yesterday, Austin and I's morning routine was halted by the BBC headlines. A home we had made and enjoyed (in many ways) was ravaged by 2 bombs on Monday. We both sat stunned as we watched live footage down a street we had walked countless times; going to visit Lisle's; Austin and Ethan buying nan paying with a "credit stick;" walking to a tailor friend who made all our floor pillows and several shirts. Never did I think "that's our street. Is that our house?" would come out of my mouth while watching BBC. Austin quickly emailed our old landlord/dear friend, to find out how they were. All were fine and they planned to return to their home in a days time. The next thoughts through my head were, "I'm glad we moved. It could have been us; my kids." And the thought that trailed that one was one of those sweet Father whispers "they are my kids and I watch over them."
Remember that paradigm blowing 2002 Summit retreat; Ethan B- something? Wasn't that his name? That safety is an illusion and our days are really the Lords. The rest of the day it was like I had a podcast of his talk running through my head; with little scratches and blips missing.
I remember Ethan's first day of Kindergarten (and numerous days afterwards). 9-4p.m. is so long for my little 5 year old to be under the instruction of someone else. We've taught him to respect and obey the teaching of authority and it wasn't long before he came home with his mind full of ghost and witch stories. Halloween, hadn't thought through that one. We hadn't been around Halloween and here he was hearing all these stories from people we had taught him to respect. "We don't believe in that, buddy. Jesus is victorious over all that darkness." Numerous nights of re-guiding and re-teaching. They are His and He will guide them!
"Mary" asked again yesterday if Elli could come with her for the afternoon to her village to play and pick cherries. Elli, my 3 year old (who thinks she's 12)? Austin and I talked it over, weighting the risks and benefits. One of our goals as a family is to grow in our love for our national friends. An afternoon together, doing such fun things on a farm would foster that. But this place isn't the most kid-friendly (in that nothing is "baby proofed"). We felt okay if Ethan went along too. His local language is better; he's a lot more responsible and less distracted by his whims or emotions. I didn't tell him he was in charge (as I don't want to foster too much of that) but knew he would watch out for Elli. Mary said it would be an hour and a half trip. I new better than that. I prayed all afternoon. Prayed over open water ditches; prayed for local transportation; prayed for squatty pottys. You name it I (and my girl friends) covered it in prayer. But I prayed too for great memories to happen for my kids, in language and with local friends. My heart was relieved when they came home. And He again whispered, as we listened to story after story at the dinner table, "they are mine, I will watch over them."
Austin and I have been given a great gift and responsibility in parenting and guiding our 3 precious children. As I do it, may my heart remember that regardless of the location or the circumstance, I am merely a steward of this precious gift and that He is ultimately trustworthy!
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